You’re Always Public Speaking So Be Prepared你总是如此公开演讲准备

You’re Always Public Speaking So Be Prepared你总是如此公开演讲准备
By: Maria Davies到：玛丽亚戴维斯

The funny thing about presenting and public speaking is that the majority of people will tell you they don’t enjoy it and/or aren’t very good at it.有趣的介绍和对公众讲的是，大多数人会告诉你，他们不喜欢和/或不太好它。 And yet regardless of who they are and what they do, most of the speaking they do on a day-to-day basis IS public speaking.然而，无论他们是谁，他们所做的事情，大多数发言，他们就做日常的基础是公众演讲。

You see, mostly when we talk to ourselves we keep it as an internal dialogue that nobody else can hear.你看，主要是当我们谈论我们自己，我们保持它作为一个内部的对话，其他人可以听到。 But whenever we open our mouths and actually make a noise in front of another person we’re speaking in public - hence “public speaking”.但是每当我们打开我们的嘴巴，实际上使噪音在前面的另一人说我们在公共-因此， “公开演讲” 。 So why do so many people find it so scary?那么，为什么如此多的人发现，所以害怕？

I think it’s the eyes.我认为这是眼睛。 All those sets of eyes fixed on you…..所有这些规定的眼睛盯着你... .. BORING into you.镗到你。 It’s unsettling.这是令人不安的。 So would it be any easier if your audience was ignoring you and all looking the other way?所以，它是任何容易，如果你的听众是无视你和所有寻找其他的方式？ What if they all dozed off so it WAS as if you were talking to yourself?如果他们都打瞌睡所以这是因为如果你交谈吗？ (Have you ever been a Rotary after-dinner speaker?) （你去过扶轮晚宴后，一位？ ）

Whatever the reason, the fact is that before getting up to speak, even the most seasoned professional will have some butterflies, whether they choose to call the feeling nervousness or excitement doesn’t really matter.不管什么原因，事实是，面前站立起来讲，即使是最老练的专业人士有一些蝴蝶，他们是否选择呼叫的感觉紧张或兴奋并没有真正问题。 Rest assured, we all experience it to some degree.请放心，我们都体验到某种程度。

If I had one tip to pass on, if I was asked to tell you the most important lesson I’ve learnt over the years I’ve been presenting, it would have to be to stress the absolute necessity of being totally prepared.如果我有一个尖端传递，如果有人问我告诉你，最重要的教训我已经学会多年来我已经提交，就必须强调的是绝对必要的完全准备。

Now this may sound obvious and I’m sure you’ve heard this before, possibly many times, and like a lot of important messages it tends to become diluted the more we hear it “Oh yes, I knew that, now what else?”.现在，这个听起来可能很明显，我相信你听过这之前，可能很多次，想了很多重要的信息往往成为削弱了我们听到的更多的是“啊，我知道，现在还有什么？ “ 。

And yet, knowing this, some people will be outside in the car park seconds before they have to deliver their sales pitch scribbling it out on the back of a business card.然而，明知这一点，一些人将外面的停车场秒之前，他们必须提供他们的销售摊位涂鸦它的背面一张名片。 I know, I’ve been there.我知道，我一直在那里。

When I talk about being prepared, I mean you should know your talk off by heart.当我谈论正在准备，我的意思是你应该知道你所谈论了心。 You should be able to give it verbatim, standing on your head, without even having to think about what comes next.您应该能够给它逐字，站在你的脑袋，甚至不得不思考今后怎么办。

Now some of you may be thinking “Yes, but I don’t work like that.现在，你们当中的某些人可能会想： “是的，但我不这样的。 I like to keep the spontaneity” or “Yes, but I want to tailor my talk to the occasion” or “Yes, but that would be boring because I’d just be on auto pilot.”我想保持自发性“或”是的，但我想我的裁缝交谈之际“或”是的，但是这将是乏味，因为我只希望是对汽车的试点。 “

But actually, that’s not what happens.但实际上，这不是会发生什么事情。 In effect, the opposite is true.实际上，情况恰恰相反。 When you know your talk by rote, it gives you the freedom to change it around, to add, to subtract without losing your direction.当你知道你的通话死记硬背，它可以让您自由改变它周围，以新增，减去不失去你的方向发展。 It’s like driving from A to B. If your route is set from the outset and you know it well, you can safely veer off and browse in a few antique shops and have a pub lunch in a picturesque village off the beaten track and still get back to where you were to complete your journey.这就像开车从A到b.如果您的路线是从一开始就和你知道好，你可以放心地转向了和浏览了几个古董商店和酒吧的午餐在风景如画的村独辟蹊径，并还是回到那里你完成您的旅程。 But, if you’d just set off in the general direction with no main route to which to return, you’d soon get lost if you were to be diverted and you’d have difficulty picking up that thread again.但是，如果您只希望中减除的大方向没有主要途径而返回，你会很快失去如果你要改，你会遇到困难加快线程一次。

You see, there are so many things out there that can throw the speaker, and lots of unexpected things can occur when you’re dealing with the public.你看，有这么多的东西有，可以扔掉的发言者说，和许多意想不到的事情可能会发生当你处理公众。 No matter how good you are, you will become distracted, so knowing your material to the nth degree is absolutely crucial.不管有多好你，你将成为心烦意乱，所以知道您的材料的n次方程度绝对是至关重要的。

If something happens that needs your attention, you’ll have to stop and deal with it, but you can return to your talk with barely a glitch and appear calm, collected and hence the ultimate professional.如果发生什么事，需要你注意，你要制止和处理这个问题，但你可以返回到您的交谈几乎没有故障，看来平静，收集，因此最终的专业。

You see we all get nervous.你看我们大家都感到紧张。 We all stick our feet in our mouths sometimes.我们都坚持在我们脚下有时我们的嘴巴。 We don’t ever operate in a hermetically sealed environment, especially when exposed to other humans.我们没有任何的运作密封环境，特别是当暴露给其他人。 But prepare, prepare and over-prepare and not only will you enjoy the confidence of knowing that nothing can phase you because you know your material, but if you’re forced off your chosen route for any reason you can return smoothly and appear to be the consummate professional speaker.但是，编写，编制和超额准备并不仅你会得到市民的信任知道，没有任何东西可以阶段你因为你知道你的材料，但如果你被迫离开您所选择的路线以任何理由可以返回进展顺利，似乎是在完善专业音箱。

And after all, if you can’t - or won’t - speak about your business, who will?毕竟，如果你不能-或者不会-谈谈您的企业，谁呢？

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Maria Davies is the UK’s top professional speaker and presentations coach for women.玛丽亚戴维斯是英国最大的专业音箱和介绍妇女教练。 Find out more at www.laddersofsuccess.com预知详情， www.laddersofsuccess.com